Respect
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anthony29040
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Re: Respect
My 6 year old boy is at a private school. Not because i am a snob or have loads of money. His school gives him a sense of respect for others and an understanding of his actions upon others.
I live 2 mins walk from a primary school and it would seem to obvious choice to send my boy there...easy and free as well.
But when i see the kids walking to and from each day it became ver clear that i did not want my son to learn some 4 letter words just yet, to learn how to spit the furthest, how to wear a hoody nor how to use a Zippo correctly.
Most of the parenst do the best they can and the vast majority of kids are great and well mannered but all it takes is one to start the rot.
Kids are naturally drawn to other kids that seem to flout the rules...isn't that what a large part of hollywood is all about...being bad?
At my sons school any such behaviour is stopped straight away.
Also i have found that my boys behaviour was being dictated by what TV he watched..obvious i hear you scream... well you might think that TV shows for his age group on the BBC would be safe to watch...wrong.
So my son after watching a BBC aired TV show now thinks it's funny to bend over in public, pull down his pants, let rip in a very loud way and then say as loud as he can "oh thats better"...yes you can imagine it!
So now he watches the discovery channel with me. Last night he learnt how cheese graters are made....well he liked it.
Stuff all this adventure bike stuff...kids are the greatest adventure of all.
Mike
I live 2 mins walk from a primary school and it would seem to obvious choice to send my boy there...easy and free as well.
But when i see the kids walking to and from each day it became ver clear that i did not want my son to learn some 4 letter words just yet, to learn how to spit the furthest, how to wear a hoody nor how to use a Zippo correctly.
Most of the parenst do the best they can and the vast majority of kids are great and well mannered but all it takes is one to start the rot.
Kids are naturally drawn to other kids that seem to flout the rules...isn't that what a large part of hollywood is all about...being bad?
At my sons school any such behaviour is stopped straight away.
Also i have found that my boys behaviour was being dictated by what TV he watched..obvious i hear you scream... well you might think that TV shows for his age group on the BBC would be safe to watch...wrong.
So my son after watching a BBC aired TV show now thinks it's funny to bend over in public, pull down his pants, let rip in a very loud way and then say as loud as he can "oh thats better"...yes you can imagine it!
So now he watches the discovery channel with me. Last night he learnt how cheese graters are made....well he liked it.
Stuff all this adventure bike stuff...kids are the greatest adventure of all.
Mike
And the beast shall be huge and black, and the eyes thereof red with the blood of living creatures, and the whore of Babylon shall ride forth on a three-headed serpent, and throughout the lands, there'll be a great rubbing of parts
Re: Respect
The removal of physical punishment from schools is only part problem with the culture of today.
The 'P.C' Brigade, Human Rights Groups etc, etc, have a lot to do with the way society is currently...Bloody do gooders........But for who's benefit???
Long gone are the days when you could give a 'clip around the ear' without repercussions.
Don't get me started....or I'll be ranting all day
The 'P.C' Brigade, Human Rights Groups etc, etc, have a lot to do with the way society is currently...Bloody do gooders........But for who's benefit???
Don't get me started....or I'll be ranting all day
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Re: Respect
I agree with Heff
Its the culture of today, so it is
I am going off topic a bit now, and talking about adults
but in my time, if you were insulted by some punk in a pub, you could teach him a lesson in respect with you fist, and the punk would learn from it, so he would
that was the way things were done back then, if a man had a smart mouth, then he better be good with his fist also,
but good with his fist or not, that punk was going to lose alot of teeth over a silly insult , so he was
but you cant do that today, you be arrested and probably charged with assault, and then sued by the punk,
so what has the punk learned today, well he has learned that he can say anything he wants to people, and they cant do a damn thing about it,
and that's some of the reason, why theres no respect today
Its the culture of today, so it is
I am going off topic a bit now, and talking about adults
but in my time, if you were insulted by some punk in a pub, you could teach him a lesson in respect with you fist, and the punk would learn from it, so he would
that was the way things were done back then, if a man had a smart mouth, then he better be good with his fist also,
but good with his fist or not, that punk was going to lose alot of teeth over a silly insult , so he was
but you cant do that today, you be arrested and probably charged with assault, and then sued by the punk,
so what has the punk learned today, well he has learned that he can say anything he wants to people, and they cant do a damn thing about it,
and that's some of the reason, why theres no respect today
Re: Respect
A Thick Ear did none of us any harm --or a good clout on the behind --- tell you what you didn't go back for seconds --or you learned how NOT to get caught
the UK is breeding a nation of WIMPS in general [ cept for the guys and girls in the forces RESPECT to em ]
Spare the rod
and SPOIL the child
Ok now for the abuse to start lol
Spare the rod
and SPOIL the child
Ok now for the abuse to start lol
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Willy_Eckerslike
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Re: Respect
If fear and violence are your preferred methods of getting your point across to a child then the child is not the one with the problem.
A ship is safe in harbour, but that’s not what ships are for. – Grace Hopper
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Re: Respect
Agree with most of the above comments.
(except Mr Eckerslike's)
However I bet that all of the posters so far(inc me)are over 45! :dry:
(except Mr Eckerslike's)
However I bet that all of the posters so far(inc me)are over 45! :dry:
